A One Word(less) Wednesday reflection on listening in motherhood. Ease Your Week by paying attention to what this season is asking of you as a mom.
A Simple Reflection to Ease Your Week
Each week, I choose one word that captures something I’ve been learning, feeling, or noticing in my everyday life as a mom.
These One Word(less) Wednesday reflections are my way of slowing down- giving thoughts room to stretch and breathe- especially in seasons when life feels busy, loud, and full of expectations.
This week’s word is:
listen
The new year tends to arrive with a lot of noise.
Plans.
Goals.
Resets.
Advice.
A thousand voices telling you who you should be by February.
And yet, the word that keeps coming up for me right now isn’t do or decide or begin.
It’s listen.
According to Websters dictionary, listen means “to pay attention” and “to give heed.”
- Not to fix.
- Not to respond immediately.
- Just to notice.
Motherhood doesn’t leave us much room for that.
Most days, listening feels like something we do for others.
- We listen for needs, for cries, for questions, for what’s about to spill or break or unravel next.
- We listen while multitasking.
- We listen while already planning the answer.
But listening to ourselves?
That often gets pushed to the bottom of the list- if it makes the list at all.
The start of a new year usually asks us to look ahead.
- To decide.
- To commit.
- To map things out.
But this year, I’m noticing something quieter underneath all of that.
- A tired body asking for a slower pace.
- A mind asking for fewer decisions.
- A small, persistent voice saying, this doesn’t need to be so hard.
Listening, I’m learning, isn’t about stopping everything.
It’s about paying attention before we push past our limits again.
- It’s listening when your body says it needs rest instead of powering through out of habit.
- Listening when something feels heavy instead of assuming you’re just not trying hard enough.
- Listening when your instincts whisper not yet or this is enough for today.
Ease Your Week by paying attention to what this season is asking of you as a mom.
Listening doesn’t demand action right away.
It doesn’t come with a checklist.
It doesn’t insist on clarity.
Sometimes listening is just sitting with the truth of how things feel- without rushing to make it productive.
That’s especially hard for moms at the beginning of a year.
- We want to start strong.
- We want to show up well.
- We want to do right by everyone.
But strength doesn’t always look like momentum.
Sometimes it looks like pausing long enough to hear what you actually need- before the year carries you forward on autopilot.
Listening might look like:
- choosing a slower morning even when you could do more
- letting a plan change without turning it into a failure
- honoring your capacity instead of negotiating with it
- admitting that something needs to be simpler this season
Listening is not falling behind.
It’s staying connected.
As this year begins, I’m not asking myself what I want to accomplish yet.
I’m asking what I need to hear.
- From my body.
- From my home.
- From this season of motherhood.
Listening doesn’t promise answers.
But it creates space for honesty.
And right now, that feels like the most supportive place to start.
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